Do you remember the first time you and your partner had sex? The sensation of touching for the first time, kissing each other passionately, and ultimately the first penetration? It was hot and sexy and it left you wanting more...right?
I'm sure you probably answered yes to this question...So it's been awhile, and sex seems to feel like a chore for you. Guess what? It shouldn't!Don't let your sex life become boring or even worse...Non-Existent!
So here are ten ways to spice up your sex life!
1. Role Play
Pretending you are someone else can be such a turn on and a easy way to enact all your fantasies! Be creative and don't be shy! Try sexy scenarios such as the naughty nurse or the innocent schoolgirl! This is a sure fire way to have an affair without actually having one!
2. Increase Foreplay
Believe it or not having more foreplay can make having sex more sexy! Often times sex becomes just an act and predictable. Spend at least 20 minutes having foreplay, this will make you both more horny before having sex. Spend those minutes exploring each others bodies by licking, touching, and sucking various parts!
3.Make Sex Unpredictable
Yes, I know an obvious one! But you would be surprised how many people plan sex. When you plan for sex makes it well...predictable and sometimes boring! I don't know about you but planning for sex does not make me horny. Sex should be about spontaneity and passion!
4. Practice Abstinence
I don't know about you, but not being able to have sex with my husband just makes me crave it even more. So when I say practice abstinence, I mean go a week without having sex. You'll be surprised at how passionate your next sex session is! After all too much of a good thing can be bad!
5. Add Some Kink
Sex can become boring, so feel free to introduce some other niches to your bedroom fun. Feel free to discuss some of your kinky fetishes with your man! Some couples find that introducing bondage can really spice up their sex life.
6. Watch Porn Together
I know it sounds dirty, but believe it or not watching porn with your partner can be a way to really get into the mood. Hearing and seeing another couple have sex while you are making love can heighten your senses and serve as a good teaching platform for you both!
7. Dirty Talk
Nothing can be more sexy than hearing your partner say what they want to do to you! So feel to say whatever comes to mind...whispering sweet nothings or just being downright nasty can be a sure fire way to send your partner over the edge!
8. Introduce Sex Toys
Just the mere thought of bringing sex toys into the bedroom can be a bit scary for some people! But guess what? It can be the most awesome thing you bring into your relationship! Feel free to introduce Dildos, Vibrators, and even Plugs! Let's not forget the lubricants either! Experiment with different toys and find what suits you as a couple!
9. Surprise your Partner Sexually
Nothing can make your partner feel more turned on then the fact that you met him at the door naked! Men are visual and love to see the female body. Hell, surprise your man with a blowjob as soon as he comes home! This kind of spontaneity will surely bring some major spice! Nothing says I want you more then being spontaneous!
10. Send Sexy Pics and Naughty Texts
I guarantee this will turn up the heat. When your man's at work snap some naked selfies and send them to him! He will be turned on for the rest of the day. This will build anticipation for both of you! Just the fact that he is turned on and can't do anything about it will make him more horny for you! So go ahead and be naughty via text!
Sex is an amazing gift we can share with our partners! So don't let the passion die!
Yours Truly,
Naughty Rachel Myrie
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