Talk Dirty To Me!

Talk Dirty to Me!

 Yes, I said it....

A lot of you reading this are probably curious as to why I just said that. Some of you may even feel a little embarrassed by that statement. It seems that even though we all live in a very sexual society, the thought of talking dirty in bed seems taboo! It seems to have this awful stigma attached to it...somehow people have come to conclusion that talking dirty is demeaning and disgusting.

However, I beg to differ! When used properly this can be a great form of sex play!

As for me talking dirty is an essential part of my sex life and naughty fun as well. I have found that using dirty talk excites and arouses my partner through senses and the imagination! So don't be afraid to introduce this into your sex life! It can really add some spice and remove barriers!

I understand dirty talk isn't for everyone...but I believe it can be! Yes I know you avid porn watchers have all heard the very explicit and downright vulgar talk in numerous videos...but this isn't the only way to talk!

As with anything you have various niches! So it stands to reason that Dirty talk has different ways to be performed.

If you are a beginner and are somewhat uncomfortable with the idea of talking dirty I would strongly recommend practicing soft-core dirty talk. This mainly consists of sweet nothings and not so dirty phrases. Try to stick to things that you feel comfortable saying and are familiar with.

Here are some examples:
- You are so hot when you...
- I love the way you touch me....
- Your wish is my command...
- You turn me on so much...

Now if you are more advanced or just like dirty sex you would go with hard-core dirty talk. This almost always contains swear words and very descriptive phrases. When done in confidence this can be one of the most hottest forms of sex play.

Here are some examples:
Rub your....all over my....
Lick my....now
I want you to...me now
I want to eat your...

Being able to talk dirty is one thing...but being effective is another story. As women we sometimes feel ashamed about doing certain things in the bedroom. My advice to you, "Don't be!" If you only go through the motions of talking dirty just to please your partner it will seem forced and be highly ineffective.

So from one woman to another...Be confident in what you are doing and take down any walls you might have in place. The bedroom should be a place that you and your mate can be totally free and able to explore your deepest desires!

So when talking dirty in the bedroom try some of these techniques!

When you are having sex describe out loud how you are feeling! Hell, even describe your fantasies to your partner. Be descriptive!Tell them what you want to do to them. This can be extremely hot if your partner likes to be dominated!

 Ladies don't be afraid to break out of your comfort zone. Another important tip to dirty talking is to try to maintain eye contact when doing this! Eye contact can be powerful and can strengthen the sexual bond and electricity of the moment!

Lastly, compliment your partner during sex! We all love receiving compliments...it makes us feel great about ourselves. So it would only stand to reason that if you compliment your man during dirty talk he's likely to get a huge ego boost and perform much better in the bedroom.

Remember dirty talk isn't just about saying the right thing, its also about how you say it! A good majority of men get aroused by sound. When I say sound I mean the sound of a woman moaning or whispering in his ear. So when talking dirty add some sound effects! Feel free to moan loudly or quietly in his ear while he's penetrating you! Feel free to try out a different delivery method as well such as being domineering or simply submissive. Just remember to have fun with it!

Dirty talk can be amazing and really spice up your life...just remember to only do what you feel comfortable doing! Be yourself and say what feels natural to you! So my friends I dare you to go home and pull out some dirty talk for your husbands! They will love it and you both will be very satisfied! :)

Signing Off

Rachel Myrie