Is Your Lover Cheating?

We often think we have the perfect relationship. We believe that the person we choose to love is always going to remain faithful to us. Sadly this is not the case in most relationships today!

A lot of things can affect a relationship such as bills, stress, and a heavy work schedule! However, if you start to notice sudden changes in your relationship it may be cause for alarm! This can leave you questioning if your spouse is cheating.

So here are some tell-tale signs of a cheater....

The first sign you will notice is that your sex life changes dramatically. Now when I say dramatically, it can go two ways. The first way is that your partner loses interest in sex all together. They may offer excuses as to why they just aren't into it. They may say they are too tired or not feeling well. Or their behavior can shift the other way. They can suddenly become adventurous in bed or become an expert in a sexual technique.

The second sign is your partner's cell phone. It's quite simple really...odds are if your partner is
cheating, they will start to act funny when it comes to their  phone. They will begin to not answer their phone in front of you or leave the room all together. They may also snatch their phone from you when you pick it up!

The third sign is an increase in grooming. This usually throws up a red flag. Especially if your partner usually doesn't care much about their appearance. A sudden increase in the use of expensive colognes or new deodorants can be a good indicator.  It can even go as far as working out at the gym, when they never cared about their body before. Or perhaps you find spiffy new clothes that your partner never wears around you.

The fourth sign is an increase in arguments. Do you suddenly find yourself getting in a lot more arguments with your partner? If your partner is cheating, they will likely pick fights with you and make mean comments about your appearance or other things. This is done to justify their own bad behavior. They have to cut you down to build themselves up. Or quite simply, they are looking for a way out of the relationship.

The fifth sign is a classic. This sign is simply a quick shower. Does your partner come home and race to the shower? If so, your partner is probably washing off any evidence that may be on them. The evidence may include: lipstick, perfume, or bodily juices!

The last sign is working late. Yes, I know sometimes you have to put in the extra hours at work but too much time could be bad. That supposed extra time at work,
could really be alone time with a secret lover.

These are all very troubling signs that you might see when in a relationship with someone who is cheating. If you notice these things, address your suspicions and take necessary action. Remember you deserve much more than a cheating lover!

You deserve someone who will treat you with respect. You deserve someone who genuinely loves you! So don't stay with someone who cheats. There are so many people out in this world, so find someone who deserves YOU!

Signing Off,

Confident and Informative

Rachel Myrie